Do you often find that you and your spouse are having the same argument over and over again? You find yourself repeating once again the well thought out reasons you have for your stance on the matter, and your spouse does not seem to be understanding or even acknowledging what you are saying. You probably even keep hearing the same old defensive excuses that your spouse uses as evidence for his/her side of the disagreement. But why is it that you guys can’t seem to get past t